I am not sure whether I understand your question correctly: Are you saying you found three drivers updates (e1000, bcm5700, bnx2) for your dl360 G4 hardware?
If so then I would recommend to update all of them regardless of whether you are using that particular NIC or not. This will help in the future when you want to use the spare NIC.
To find out what driver you are currently using check the 'lsmod' output, it should list the drivers currently loaded on the kernel, one of the above should be listed (most likely all three would be listed).
Regards,
Gopi
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